NLP can assist us to strengthen the quality of our communication skills with women. NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) helps us to understand the differing aspects of neurological behaviour regarding communication. Once you begin to understand these differing aspects of communication it becomes advantageous for you whilst interacting with women. This is why NLP has been associated with seduction.
Seduction is simply utilizing the most effective means to communicate our desires and intentions. The more effectively we communicate, the greater the possibility of a woman harmonizing and aligning herself with our intent.
Seduction and NLP go hand in hand. By swiftly interpreting which kind of system a woman is primarily employing, a man can apply the same system to build trust and connection more effectively. Building trust and rapport are essential factors in seduction.
People will primarily use one of four different representational systems to communicate and the system they adopt is dependent on their personality type. The systems are known as kinesthetic, visual, audio and olfactory. If a man converses with a woman whilst utilizing her primary system he is able to establish a connection with her much faster.
If someone adopts the visual representational system as their personal hierarchy, their conversations will have words in them that are related to vision. You would hear them say such sentences as, "I see exactly what you mean. I couldn't picture it at first, but now that I can, it has totally changed my point of view"
With a little practice it can become simple for you to adopt the same representational system in your conversational dynamics as the woman you are flirting with. It gives the woman the impression that you just seem to be able to speak her language.
A woman who uses an audio representational system would often use statements such as, "I just like the sound of it. I knew it was a good idea as soon as I heard it so immediately I tuned in. It was like music to my ears"
If the kinaesthetic system is her personal hierarchy you'll hear numerous words in sentences that will be associated with feelings and touch. An example would be, "I don't feel like I've touched on the subject properly with him. I wish he'd warm to the idea and talk about it because I feel it would soften his hurt somewhat"
The use of the olfactory system as a representational system hierarchy is quiet rare as most people are visual, kinesthetic or audio. An olfactory example is, "It was a really bitter and cold day but the way he thought about bringing a jumper along for me was really tastefully done"
Now that you're aware of how the different systems operate you'll be able to easily pick up on what system a woman is primarily using. You can then use that system to communicate with her much more effectively. Below is an example of a communication breakdown on a very subliminal level.
If a woman was to say, "That place looks great to me and I can just visualise myself being there someday. It just looks so picturesque, nearly like a painting", she would be operating from the perspective of a 'visual'. If the man who was an 'audio' responded with, "That idea sounds like sweet music to me. No city noise and just peace and quiet. Just relax and tune out", he would be missing an opportunity to connect with her at a deeper level.
Although the man is agreeing with the woman in the above example, to her it still seems like he is speaking a different language. It will rub her the wrong way at a subconscious level and she won't feel totally connected to him. However, if the man responded with, "I can see what you mean, that does look good. I too could definitely visualize myself going there", the outcome would be a lot different and the woman would be more at ease around the man.
When a man can easily identify the woman's preferred representational system and is able to utilize the same system, it's natural for the woman to feel more comfortable around the man. It can become easy with a little practice and it's always an advantage to have this embedded within your conversational dynamics. - 31985
Seduction is simply utilizing the most effective means to communicate our desires and intentions. The more effectively we communicate, the greater the possibility of a woman harmonizing and aligning herself with our intent.
Seduction and NLP go hand in hand. By swiftly interpreting which kind of system a woman is primarily employing, a man can apply the same system to build trust and connection more effectively. Building trust and rapport are essential factors in seduction.
People will primarily use one of four different representational systems to communicate and the system they adopt is dependent on their personality type. The systems are known as kinesthetic, visual, audio and olfactory. If a man converses with a woman whilst utilizing her primary system he is able to establish a connection with her much faster.
If someone adopts the visual representational system as their personal hierarchy, their conversations will have words in them that are related to vision. You would hear them say such sentences as, "I see exactly what you mean. I couldn't picture it at first, but now that I can, it has totally changed my point of view"
With a little practice it can become simple for you to adopt the same representational system in your conversational dynamics as the woman you are flirting with. It gives the woman the impression that you just seem to be able to speak her language.
A woman who uses an audio representational system would often use statements such as, "I just like the sound of it. I knew it was a good idea as soon as I heard it so immediately I tuned in. It was like music to my ears"
If the kinaesthetic system is her personal hierarchy you'll hear numerous words in sentences that will be associated with feelings and touch. An example would be, "I don't feel like I've touched on the subject properly with him. I wish he'd warm to the idea and talk about it because I feel it would soften his hurt somewhat"
The use of the olfactory system as a representational system hierarchy is quiet rare as most people are visual, kinesthetic or audio. An olfactory example is, "It was a really bitter and cold day but the way he thought about bringing a jumper along for me was really tastefully done"
Now that you're aware of how the different systems operate you'll be able to easily pick up on what system a woman is primarily using. You can then use that system to communicate with her much more effectively. Below is an example of a communication breakdown on a very subliminal level.
If a woman was to say, "That place looks great to me and I can just visualise myself being there someday. It just looks so picturesque, nearly like a painting", she would be operating from the perspective of a 'visual'. If the man who was an 'audio' responded with, "That idea sounds like sweet music to me. No city noise and just peace and quiet. Just relax and tune out", he would be missing an opportunity to connect with her at a deeper level.
Although the man is agreeing with the woman in the above example, to her it still seems like he is speaking a different language. It will rub her the wrong way at a subconscious level and she won't feel totally connected to him. However, if the man responded with, "I can see what you mean, that does look good. I too could definitely visualize myself going there", the outcome would be a lot different and the woman would be more at ease around the man.
When a man can easily identify the woman's preferred representational system and is able to utilize the same system, it's natural for the woman to feel more comfortable around the man. It can become easy with a little practice and it's always an advantage to have this embedded within your conversational dynamics. - 31985
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