NLP Anchoring, Enjoying The Secret Of Poise

By Trevor Johnson

When you think of an anchor, chances are, a mental image of a boat comes to mind. What is the anchor of a boat used for? It is used to keep the boat in one place, right? Well, NLP Anchoring is basically the same. It is a method used to keep us in the right frame of mind. We condition ourselves to respond a certain way to certain situations.

Throughout are lives we are constantly being conditioned whether we realize it or not. For instance, maybe as a small child, a relative would lock you in a dark closet just to bully you around a bit. As a result, you might be claustrophobic or afraid of the dark. These feelings are a negative result of the incident. In order to overcome the phobia, you have to retrain your brain with positive thoughts and feelings.

Sitting in a doctor's office with the door closed you start to experience the negative feelings. Try to think of times in your life that you were happy or calm. Things that gave you pleasure. Maintain that memory and those feelings. If you can do this, the negative feelings will start to disappear. If you repeat this exercise every time you start to feel claustrophobic eventually, the claustrophobia will disappear because you have reconditioned your reaction.

While experiencing the situation that makes you uncomfortable, think of NLP Anchoring; focus on a memory that gives you positive feelings. Keep focusing on that memory until the undesired feelings subside. Perform this exercise repeatedly until your mind automatically associates the positive feelings with the event.

Another exercise in the NLP Anchoring process is to associate touch with a positive feeling. Maybe there is a certain gesture or even a certain spot on your body, finger, hair or hand, which you can learn to connect positive feelings to. Then, when you start feeling the negative feelings, you can touch that area to help you bring about positive feelings.

NLP Anchoring can also be associated with a person. If you have someone that you really love to spend time with, think of them when negative situations arise. We all have the situations in life that even just the thought of them makes us cringe. The above mentioned NLP Anchoring will help to make the situations more bearable if you practice. - 31985

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Make My Own Subliminals Effectively

By Trevor Johnson

Subliminal messages are the messages that the are encoded so that their hidden messages are enclosed in various media and are totally not recognizable to the conscious mind of the listener or viewer. This is the main definition of the subliminal messages. They can be hidden in audios, pictures or even if plain sight Here we shall see how to make my own subliminals.

There are a few messages that cannot be understood or decoded by your inner or sub conscious mind. These messages are generally enclosed by various media and hence are unrecognisable. In the case of audios, you'd need to remove the main "covering" track before you heard the subliminally recorded message This is a simple definition. After reading the next few pares you wins ask yourself about making my own subliminals.

People can embed the message in music, computer, camera, or TV programmes. The message is in text format or voice recorded. The software will automatically create subliminal messages in the desired format. This is a way to create subliminal messages.

The software is generally used as a free trial before it is sold. It is available online and can be purchased any time. The points to be noted are the effective usage of first person pronouns like I, Me, Myself etc. They are an absolute necessity.

The present tense must be used. The tense for example must be as will, can, shall etc. The positive messages are the ones that are preferred. Making oneself unhappy using this medium is really a foolish idea. It's very important to note that the use of subliminal messages on others is taboo. Advertising through this medium is termed illegal. This is due to violation of the right of privacy.

Subliminal messages play a major role in generating positive messages within us. Generating sub luminal message with tense like we, will have more power and preferred by most of the person. Advertising regarding producing of sub luminal messages are punishable under law and illegal too. These messages are very powerful means to manipulate people and their thinking. So any misuse of this method is severely punishable under federal law. - 31985

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Covert Hypnosis Power--Persuasion And Influence

By Dr. Anthony Taylor

Empower yourself with the most cutting edge communication models known to the hypnotic mind control community for years by learning how to use social strategy to get the things that you want in life.

Life is not fair, so you must make it fair by arming yourself with th necessary knowledge to overcome each and every obstacle that you encounter. What this means is that you can use hypnosis mind control to completely nullify the resistance of other people.

It cannot be denied that what you know determines how far you can go. So, by learning the principles of covert hypnosis, you simply will not be stopped in your quest to live a healthier and happier life. Covert hypnosis is literally the knowledge required to attain the heights of power and greatness.

By increasing your social status, you will also increase your opportunities. Many more people will be happy to open the gates of success for you. This means that you will have the opportunity to get better jobs, to get raises, and to get more respect from everyone everywhere you go.

Covert hypnosis is not related to clinical hypnosis. Clinical hypnosis strategies consist of language patterns that do not work outside of clinical settings, but mind control hypnosis uses social strategies and hypnotic power moves . For this reason hypnosis mind control is as shocking and as stunning as it is, because it has the supreme force to change your life in spite of what anyone else does to oppose you.

Covert hypnosis is just like anything else, the more you put into it, the more you will get out of it! By investing in the art of power persuasion, you will be able to profit from it. It's this easy, but you need to remember that power persuasion is not just something you learn, it is also an art that you must put into apply on a daily basis to profit from. Practice, practice, practice! This is the covert path to mastering the arts of persuasion and influence. Hypnotic mind control cannot be denied. Politics and advertising are primate examples of the power of covert persuasion to influence the hearts and minds of other people. - 31985

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Hypnosis Techniques--Combining Power Loops With Suggestion

By Dr. Anthony Taylor

Can you remember a time when you told someone something but they forgot what you explained to them? Sometimes you tell a person the same thing again and again, and it seems like they never once heard what you said. This is a break down in our communication that happens more frequently than you may be aware of. It is for this reason that hypnosis trainers have always taught the necessity of including repetition with your communication tactics.

Hypnotists are also well aware that people are not likely to absorb a suggestion unless the suggestion is continual. This is why many hypnosis methods are built-in with repetition. The hypnotist repeats the same suggestions in different ways in order for the suggestions to take root.

In fact, not only do you have the option of repeating the hypnosis strategies that you are using, most hypnosis strategies NEED to be repeated in order for them to be effective. Hypnosis techniques are delivered through the vehicle of suggestion. However, in order for hypnotic suggestions to take root, they need to be repeated enough times so that they will effectively take root in the person's unconscious mind whom you are influencing.

The technique used in hypnosis for repeating suggestions is called Power Loops. You use Power Loops to continue looping around hypnotic suggestions in order to make your suggestions potent enough to take root in a person's unconscious mind. Each time you loop around a suggestion, you make the suggestion more powerful. Needless to say, the more Power Loops you use, the more power you are adding to your hypnosis strategies.

As a rule, most competent hypnotists utilize what is recognized as The Blackjack rule as a benchmark to determine how many Power Loops they should use to repeat their suggestions. The Blackjack rule states that a hypnotic suggestion should be repeated 21 times in order for the hypnosis procedure to take root in a person's unconscious mind to the point where the suggestion is able to grow and yield results. - 31985

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Is It True? Does NLP Cure Phobias?

By Trevor Johnson

A lot of people have phobias that they simply cannot forget about regardless of how hard they try, there are several things that people have tried in order to cure their fear of one thing or another, if you are inquisitive to find out does nlp cure phobias, the answer is yes it does. However, in order to understand how nlp can work for you, it is imperative to gain a strong understanding of what exactly NLP truly is.

NLP is an acronym that is used for the longer term of the word which is neuro-lingustic programming. It is seen as a general approach to model human behaviors by aiding in personal growth and assisting with basic communication.

NLP first began being used in the 1970s and it posses a set number of techniques which were taken directly from the behaviors of knowledgeable psychotherapists. The practice focuses in on three different areas of the human mind which include a humans language pattern, their thoughts and their perception on the world.

A lot of people tend to refer to NLP as a state of hypnosis, which in many regards is what it truly is. It channels in on all basic human emotions and makes them bigger than you would expect. Properly being able to define what NLP is can be rather difficult, since different hypnotherapists may use different techniques in order to assist their consumers.

NLP provides tools that hypnotherapists need in order to assist their clients with what they need in order to be able to live a happier, fuller and content life. After the procedure has been administered many people go on with their lives cured of their present phobias and ready to face anything.

If you have a phobia that seems to be inhibiting your life, trying NLP may be the best solution to your problem. It's a quick and easy way, without spending hours with a shrink. - 31985

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Covert Persuasion and The Top Three Persuasion Systems

By David Drake

It cannot be denied that there are numerous skill sets of covert persuasion being taught to the extent that many hypnosis techniques cannot be used in real life scenarios. Covert hypnosis generally falls into three systems of persuasion:

1) Social Strategy 2) Hypnotic Language 3) The Art of Seduction

Most of the information available only focuses upon one persuasion system. Or, what happens is you are taught only the principles of mind control hypnosis and expected to adapt the universal principles of covert hypnosis into whatever particular persuasion system you happen to be operating in. This reveals that most covert hypnosis programs do not give you the entire hypnosis training you need to get the things you want.

Social status and power involves getting the best jobs, raises at the work place, and the ability to make powerful alliances that will assist you in your efforts to become successful. Covert language patterns involves sleight of mouth and other conversational hypnosis techniques that you can use to persuade people through language. The art of seduction provides you with the skill set to communicate with the opposite sex in powerful ways that give you the ability to date whomever you want when you want.

All three of these areas of hypnosis are very imperative, but without doubt, social status and power are the most essential because by obtaining social status, everything else that you want will eventually fall into place. Nevertheless, it is good to study hypnosis mind control that covers as much territory of the art of persuasion as possible. The more you know, the further you can go. It cannot be denied that those who increase in knowledge will also increase in power.

However to learn mind control hypnosis secrets and to practice hypnosis mind control tactics are two entirely different things. If you truly apply what you are being taught, you will achieve the results you are looking for. Mind control hypnosis is like anything else in life: The more you put into it, the more you will get out of it. - 31985

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What Harm Does Anger Cause To Your Body?

By Andy D Gallagher

Anger is a state of mind when a person loses its senses that lead to awful consequences. It is harmful in all cases. Ethically and medically, anger is bad. There has been increased awareness in people about anger management in recent times. No matter how hard you do exercise, and how good you eat, you cannot make up the damage you do to your body when you are angry.

There is an intense negative effect of anger on your body. Some of the physical signs that can be there when someone is angry include the grinding and clenching of teeth, muscle tension, flushing and sometimes there may also be ringing in the ears. During time of anger, the body reacts through shooting blood pressure. This can result in chest pains and also sweating and chills. In addition to this, there can also be severe headaches as well as migraines.

Some people who face the problems of chronic anger can also experience peptic ulcers, intestinal cramps, or indigestion and constipation during anger. Extreme effects of anger on the body include things like heart attack obesity and even kidney failure.

Medical research tells us that anger affects directly to heart muscles. Those people, who remain angry most of the time, are more likely to become victim of heart attacks because the weak muscles do not work well to pump blood. The angriest people always have cardiac problems, and high blood pressure.

Either the anger is hidden or open; both conditions are harmful for your health. Prolonged anger is more harmful as it slowly damages your body parts. Medical science tells that people who hide their anger are more likely to have skins problems. They may have eczema, rashes, or acne problems. The more you will be happy, your skin will glow, and the shine will be back.

Besides having the obvious consequences, concealed anger also has a psychological effect. When one suppresses anger, it may direct to despair, insomnia as well as nightmares. In adding up, it can also cause consumption disorders, and can cause obsession to drugs, or alcohol. In some cases, all these symptoms can show the way to self-destructive behaviour. These things can unfavourably influence the way people interrelate, and communicate to each other.

When one gets angry, there occurs the discharge of chemicals, and hormones in the body. These principally include adrenaline, and non-adrenaline. Due to this discharge, all the organs that use these chemicals and hormones are exaggerated. The adrenaline hormones have a consequence on organs that are associated to the sympathetic nervous system. This can arouse the heart, and dilate the coronary vessels, which in turn constricts the blood vessels as well as the intestines, and for this reason, may close off digestion.

The people, who face extreme anger problems in daily life, need to take positive steps to overcome their anger. Anger management therapy is good for such people. There can be many other ways; one can manage his/her anger. The anger state does not last forever; it is good to leave the scene, and take some time out to think positively. By killing your anger, you become more confident, and patient. Your tolerance level increases and you are in good position to do intelligent decisions. - 31985

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How To Powerfully Persuade Others To Your Way Of Thinking

By George Hutton

When are having a conversation with somebody, wouldn't you like to be able to influence their thoughts, actions, and behaviors? Well, you are about to learn some powerful strategies that will help you to do just that. And once you learn these, you will using the same time tested strategies used by salespeople and politicians for hundreds of years.

The first and most important aspect is to develop rapport. Rapport is an often misunderstood concept. Basically it means you develop a strong sense of familiarity with whoever you are speaking with. They start to feel like they really know you, that you share a lot in common with them. Once you establish rapport, you are ready to move on to the next step.

Next, you want to start looking for criteria. These are things that are important to them. For example, when looking for an investment broker, it might be important to find one that has a quick response time for questions.

The more vague and fuzzy their criteria are, the better. If they want to eat pizza, and all you sell is hot dogs, you've got a problem. But if they want to eat something with cheese, then you've got something to work with. Even better if all they want is something spicy.

If their criteria are fuzzy, then it's much easier to persuade them. Vague words like, happiness, security, entertainment, pleasure are much easier to fulfill than a specific brand and model number.

When you have a few vague words that are important to them, you are ready to go to work. Just convince them that by doing what you want them to do, they will fulfill all or part of their criteria.

This is best done obliquely, so they don't feel they are being persuaded. Let them come to the conclusion themselves.

So, for example, if they say they want happiness, you can tell them a story about a previous client, that became really happy after buying your product or taking your advice.

The more criteria words you get, the better. And the longer you spread out the conversation, the better. Just take your time, there's no rush.

You might start to elicit his or her criteria conversationally, and then talk about something completely different, then tell a story about how a previous client fulfilled their criteria through your product. Then talk about more things not related, and then slowly fill each criteria on by one.

When you do this the right way, and with patience, by the end of the conversation, they will be begging you to be able to do what you want. This is really powerful.

Of course, make sure you don't persuade them to do something against their interests, like buy a sports car for a family of eight. When you use this with their best interests in mind, you can create a lot of happiness in people.. - 31985

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How To Enlarge Your Self Esteem

By Andy D Gallagher

No, I am sorry! I believe I would not be capable to do this communication. You may have heard this sort of sentences in your every day life. Most of the individuals who say this need self-confidence. You must value yourself, and let somebody see others that you are competent of doing any type of work.

First, let us learn about the word self-esteem. As you know that the word esteem means how you feel about something or how worthy or valuable you think it is, self-esteem means how much we feel valued, loved, accepted, and are thought well of by others.

Well, self-esteem can be smashed when someone, whose acceptance is vital, constantly puts you down. This thought is normally seen in children when they are neglected or are given negative criticism about their work or any other activity. When many negative inner voices and outside criticism get together, they normally harm self-esteem.

When we take a pew alone, we overall analyse ourselves, and attempt to render a picture of what we are, in our minds. We generally are demanding to find a way to prevail over our weaknesses, and we extend this picture since our upbringing. Improbable opportunity can also be the grounds for low self-esteem. At this instant, the point is that how we can have a healthy self-esteem. It is not rigid for life because self-worth changes over time. Therefore, there is always some mitigate for progress. Disappointingly, people who have low self-esteem regularly do have the virtues they think a lot of.

It might feel tacky, but feeling good about what you are is the easiest way to conquer this difficulty. When you start realising the fact that you can do much better than others do, you steadily start feeling self-confidence in yourself. Having the tendency of adapting new circumstances, or standing against hard state of affairs leaves a very optimistic impact in your life.

You can advance your self-esteem by staying stress-free, and thinking optimistically. Try to make a list of your good quality things and jot down a few negative points in yourself. Share, and talk about these points with your parents, or the person who is very close to you. Try to rejoice your inconsequential progresses as well. Always try to put yourself at the front; it will stimulate you to do the best.

You can improve your self-esteem by staying relaxed and thinking positively. Try to make an inventory of your good things and also few negative points in yourself. Share and discuss these points with your parents or the person who is very near to you. Try to celebrate your minor progresses as well. Always try to put yourself at the front; it will motivate you to do the best.

Another imperative thing is to learn from your own mistakes. Nobody is perfect in this world; each person makes mistakes.

One more important thing is to learn from your mistakes. No one is perfect in this world; every person makes mistakes. However, a wise person never repeats them. This all becomes possible when you have courage and confidence in yourself; yet over-confidence it will leads you to the wrong direction. - 31985

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Can I Beat Stress Via Hypnosis?

By Andy D Gallagher

Stress is a reaction to certain events or situations. It is a challenge for human beings to overcome tough situations with strength, determination and keen alertness. Stress can be caused due to multiple reasons such as marriage and family conflicts, financial issues or because of past issues which were unresolved.

More often than not, financial uncertainty, joblessness, social affiliations, work anxieties, monetary loss that is the root of stress. Conditions like sleeplessness, worry, annoyances, despair, hypertension, drug habits are a result of this.

A person in stress mostly shows the most common symptoms that include headache, depression, insomnia, drug addiction, and high blood pressure. One of the most economical ways of reducing your stress is hypnosis, which is famous for its ability to resolve issues and difficulties as well as addictions through therapy.

Self-hypnosis is a therapy that is believed to serve more than one purpose. It not only offers simple relaxation, but also helps you in managing your pain. One of the most prominent benefits is that it is easy to perform, and provides long lasting results. Other than just relaxing, you can also use hypnosis for eliminating your bad habits, whether it is your temper, and over reacting or smoking.

Place yourself in an interruption free environment. It is your choice to assume a lying position, or a seated one. Trying out will show you what is more to your liking. Set an aim for achieving optimistic output for your sitting. Feel the tranquillity, as you elevate inflow of oxygen, drawing air into your lungs, as you inhale. Feel all the tensions of your daily routine drain out as you exhale. Sense the enrichment of oxygen throughout your system.

A peaceful and relaxing environment is required for this therapy. Repeated imaginations are required to get into this process. Think that you are in another world as you want it to be, leaving your present environment far behind; feel yourself in a changed situation. Repeatedly, you will have to imagine what you are expecting to extract from this exercise.

Through hypnosis, you can communicate with not only your conscious, but also the unconscious. Other than that, there can also be a lot of education. During hypnosis, while the conscious seems to be relaxed, the subconscious still keeps on with its activity. With this, one can choose to think positively. Hypnosis tends to be an effective way to enter the subconscious mind, which is the place where the stress tends to be.

The most famous Hollywood celebrities, politicians and sportsmen use this global technique of self-hypnosis to eradicate stress and failures. Hypnosis helps to achieve highest potential to keep people focused and determined as hypnosis increases the motivation and develops extra-ordinary positive thinking in your life. - 31985

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NLP And NLP Practitioners

By Adam Cox

Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a form of psychotherapy that while not typically recognized by mainstream psychotherapy has become extremely popular with teachers, life couches and marketing and business executives. There are even several psychotherapists with private practices and many hypnotherapists who employ the methodology behind NLP.

NLP seeks to change the programming we have in our brains that causes us to react negatively to certain triggers. The belief is that those triggers are really memories or learned behaviors from the subconscious mind that are impacting our emotions. By reprogramming these memories with something positive - a calming color or sight, a happy memory or a pleasant tone of voice - we are thereby changing the way our brain interprets the trigger and changing the way we react. Sure there is little hard, scientific data to back up the claims made by NLP and NLP practitioners but when carefully considered, the theories posed by the method make sense.

There has to be some reason Patient A and Patient B react to things like dogs, snakes or spiders differently. They could have grown up next door to each other, spent their entire childhoods together and came from the same basic background. We'll say, for arguments sake that they were both from middle class, average families with one sibling two years older and one sibling two years younger, and both parents still married - one parent worked, the other stayed home and for the argument's sake again, will say it was the same parent at home in both families. They got similar grades in school and both had the same friends. Yet somehow, despite nearly identical childhoods, Patient A is terrified of dogs and Patient B is a dog lover. How does this happen?

According to NLP, it is likely that Patient A was bitten by a dog or had a bad experience with a dog, or someone in their family had a fear of dogs and displayed it in from of them. In either case, it is probable Patient A has no memory of this experience because it may have happened when they were too young to remember. That doesn't matter to the brain though. The subconscious mind remembers this and triggers the fear reaction every time Patient A sees a dog.

Patient A wants to solve this problem because Patient B is a close friend and, yes, has a four legged friend of their own. Patient A just wants to be able to visit Patient B without having a panic attack at the thought of seeing the dog. Patient A turns to an NLP practitioner to get help.

The NLP practitioner is going to try to get to the root cause of Patient A's phobia. Together, they discover that Patient A did in fact have a bad experience which programmed into Patient A's mind that dogs are bad news and should be avoided. The NLP practitioner will now set about trying to reformat that program by changing the reaction the brain has to dogs. They will do this by reprogramming the brain so when Patient A sees a dog, a pleasant reaction is triggered; allowing Patient A and Patient B to have pleasant visits without the panic attacks. - 31985

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You Can Defeat The Fear Of Being Alone!

By Trevor Johnson

Fear is usually an emotional reaction or response to a threat or an imagined state of being in danger. This feeling will be experienced especially if an individual believes that they are in danger. Psychologists are of the opinion that fear is a particular response to a stimulus such as pain, disease or being under attack. Some will even have the fear of being alone.

People always craving the attention and the company of others could be said to be suffering from the fear of being alone. They will feel extremely comfortable when they are at social events or when they are surrounded by a number of persons, feeding their desire for the need of appreciation and attention.

The fear of solitude can be termed monophobia, which is an unhealthy phobia causing panic attacks. Also, a person suffering from this condition may also experience hurtful treatments of scorn and ridicule; furthermore, they will be abused by friends, who will irritate them by putting them in situations where they are alone.

Low self esteem and low confidence accompanies this condition. Additionally, these persons will experience several abnormalities, when they believe that they are in solitude. For example, abnormal symptoms like nausea, sickness, dry mouth and they will be sweaty. Another symptom is that the heart beat will go faster, which will lead to respiratory problems and temporary speech impediments. Violent attacks of shaking and the lost of psyche are other symptoms that come with monophobia.

Physicians may recommend the use of drugs and medication, as a means of treating persons who suffer from the fear of being alone. However, these drugs and medication administered may not be effective in curing the condition, as well as they may carry dangerous side effects, which may cause more harm than good to the individual.

Another option of treating this emotional trauma is using self-help NLP methods. These methods will allow the phobic person to appreciate and understand the importance of spending quality time in privacy. - 31985

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First Step In NLP

By Landon Rivera

There are two basic principals of beginning to work with Neuro-Linguistic Programming which can greatly improve a person's life by teaching them how to control their emotional reactions, move further in their career and improve behavioral problems. This powerful, fast and effective method of psychotherapy - called NLP for short - can assist a person on their journey to a happy, more fulfilled life.

The first step, though, is deciding that you are ready to change. Without a willingness to accept that many of your problems are caused by the way you think, you are going to get limited use out of NLP therapy. NLP seeks to help you change, but if you are unreceptive to the ideas and methodology behind it, there is little anyone can do. The change first starts with you.

Set Goals:

The first step in NLP therapy is to set achievable goals keeping in mind exactly what you hope to accomplish. Don't be vague. Wanting to improve your life isn't the answer you're looking for you. You have to know exactly what you need to improve your life - what needs to change, what needs to stay the same, what needs to be added and what needs to be removed are all questions you need to ask yourself at this time. For this reason, setting goals may take longer and be more involved than you expected, but it is necessary if you want to see real results.

When you have answered the questions posed above it is time to state your goals. Leave the negativity at the door here. Phrase your goals in a positive way. You almost must be able to see, hear, feel, taste or touch the results. In other words, you must be able to have tangible results. This way you can test your results and physically experience your achievements. Make this easier by visualizing your results as you set your goals. Imagine all aspects of that goal and achieving it. You also have to be responsible for keeping track of your results yourself. This is important because you don't want your progress to depend on someone else. Also be sure the result does not limit you in any way. The goal of NLP is opening yourself up to choice and option. Do not set a goal that robs you of either of those things.

Awareness

Awareness is of vital importance. Setting a goal is of little help if you can't tell whether or not you progressing. You have to be able to see the progress in yourself but also, be able to read your progress in the people you interact with. Read them carefully for their reaction to you and watch to see if it is changing as it should be. You should be able to see positive changes in the way they interact with you. The great thing about NLP is it shows you how to do that as well. - 31985

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Fundamental Methods In NLP

By Luis Murphy

Anchoring is one of the fundamental methods in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) - a powerful psychotherapy technique that seeks to improve a person's life by helping them over come negative thinking and self-limiting thoughts and feelings. Anchoring helps the patient master their emotions and overcome self-defeating behavior. Because it focuses on the root cause of the problem, rather than just seeking to treat the symptoms, NLP and anchoring are a long term solution. All you need is the desire to change and the desire to improve.

Emotions and emotional reactions are all caused by something - and that something is called a trigger. Before you can be in control of those reactions you must identify what that trigger is. It will be different for everyone. When seeing an NLP practitioner, the first thing they will do is help you identify your trigger by asking you targeted questions and carefully listening to your responses. They will be looking for key words and phrases and will then ask deeper questions until the trigger is exposed. From there, they will begin helping you anchor that trigger so you will no longer have a negative reaction to it.

The trigger stirs an emotional response from memory. A painful trigger is attached to a painful memory. A happy trigger is attached to a happy memory. When you are experiencing an inappropriate emotional reaction to a trigger - getting angry when you encounter a certain trigger and being unable to control that anger - it is important to anchor it to something else.

In anchoring a trigger, we are changing what emotion is attached to it. An NLP practitioner is likely to use therapy to anchor a trigger than makes you angry to something you feel neutral about. It is likely not appropriate to attach a trigger that makes you feel angry to something that makes you feel happy as that would create a completely different type of inappropriate reaction. For that reason, a neutral reaction is more desired - perhaps choosing something that offers a calming an effect to the patient.

Many anchoring techniques utilize visualization as a beginning point. The patient is made to visual what makes them angry and then visualize the thing that makes them feel calm. It's important to think of nothing but those two things, being careful not to allow the negative emotion - rage, in this case - to attach to the calming device. In time, the trigger will automatically be associated with calm instead of rage. - 31985

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3 Ways To Manage Your Stress

By Lucas Bell

It would be difficult to find a person that hasn't felt overwhelmed or stressed out at some point in their life. Life is stressful. Things go wrong and it can be hard to figure out how to make them right. It can be even harder to accept that those things sometimes can't be fixed. The trick is to learn how you can deal with these things and not let the stress overwhelm your life. A popular method for learning to do this employed by teachers, business managers, marketing executives, self-help professionals and life couches is Neuro-Linguistic Programming.

Although Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) can be used to treat phobias, learning problems, habit disorders, psychosomatic illnesses and even depression the methods can also be incredibly helpful for stress management. For that reason it has become a major part of the self help industry and more and more business people are turning to NLP to help improve their lives.

There are three key ways NLP can help manage stress. I'll explore those more in depth below:

Improve Inner Dialogue

Talking to yourself is actually a very beneficial tool everyone can use, but it's important to focus on what you say. Many people need to improve inner dialogue by replacing negative phrases with positive ones. Instead of telling yourself you can't do something or you'll never get through something - tell yourself it will get better and tell yourself to stay strong. Reinforcing the positive instead of focusing on the negative is a good way to block out stress and even help yourself find a way to get yourself through it.

See Yourself As You Really Are

Most people look at themselves and see things they don't like - this is especially true of the physical. The problem with this thinking is that we are almost always far harder on ourselves than we need to be. We set up mental blocks in our mind that limit us to what we can achieve but we also set up mental filters on our eyes. We see the skin thicker than it is or thinner than it is. We see flaws in our appearance that others can't see.

Creating a positive self image is vital to reducing stress. Developing this positive self image often takes no more than focusing on the good in ourselves - and the good in the mirror.

Look Beyond the Problem

This task might be the hardest part of employing the NLP stress management method. It can be extremely difficult to see past an obstacle that may seem insurmountable. This is where the first two methods come in handy. With a positive self image supported by good inner dialogue, looking past the problem can be much easier. It's important to recognize that there are ways around the problem and that life will continue after the problem has been resolved. - 31985

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Using NLP To Reduce Stress

By Owen Bailey

Although there are wide ranging applications for the methodology of Neuro-Linguistic Programming, one of the most commonly utilized purposes for NLP in today's society is in the field of marketing and business. More and more managers, advertising executives and CEOs are using NLP to reduce the stress in their own lives and help their employees manage stress, achieve goals and communicate more effectively.

NLP is especially useful in a competitive field where you have to excel to advance. Since NLP can help you not only improve your communication skills but also feel more confident and more capable - therefore willing to take more chances. Even if you aren't rewarded with that promotion, NLP also helps you take away the positive aspects of being passed over - learning how you can improve and better communicate your desires - and leave behind the negative aspects like hurt feelings and disappointment.

When two people communicate, there are all sorts of hidden signals sent out on both sides. These signals are sent via body language, mannerisms, the way you speak words, the tone of voice you use - all of these things can sometimes speak louder than the actual words themselves. If you are at a job interview and your body language is saying you are unprepared and unconfident you are likely not going to get the job. That nervous body language is created in your mind. NLP can help uncover what is causing that insecurity and eliminate it. By doing so, at your next interview you will have confident, prepared body language and have a much better chance of getting the job.

NLP teaches the value of being able to adapt to different social situations so you will be prepared for any scenario. By simply adjusting your posture, tone of voice and body language to match that of the person you're talking to you build a sort of connection with them. You are better able to find common ground because they will feel like they are speaking with an equal rather than someone below or above them.

NLP also helps remove the self-defeating thoughts each of us has so that we are better able to reach our fullest potential. By freeing ourselves of the thoughts that tells us we can't achieve a goal, suddenly, we are telling ourselves that we can. Believing we can makes us work harder and strive to reach the goal that once seemed unattainable. That confidence makes all the difference in the world of business and in life in general.

NLP is a great tool for anyone to utilize to live their life to the fullest and improve every aspect of their life. - 31985

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The Theory Behind NLP

By Charles Cook

The Name

Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a method of psychotherapy that got its name directly from the fundamental ideas behind the theory: Neuro - relating to nerves or the brain, Linguistic - relating to language, Programming - software or controls that run a computer.

The Goal

NLP aims to help patients overcome many personal problems related to programs in their mind that prevent them from reaching their full potential. The overall goal is to help greatly improve the patient's life by uncovering the root causes of the things that are holding them back and reprogram their minds in a positive way.

The Theory

It is believed that each person has a set of programs instilled in their minds based on past experiences, beliefs and learned behaviors. For this reason, the two definitions of the word programming mentioned in section one are appropriate.

It's easy to see the analogy between the human brain and the computer. Both take input in the form of data and process it into something understandable. This is a hard task for the human brain due to the sheer volume of data that is thrown at it every second. Sights, sounds, feelings, tastes, smells are all delivered through our five senses at a steady rate and the brain has to try to make sense of it all. To do this efficiently, it deletes and changes much of this information. It makes assumptions about other information. If 'Factor A' is present and 'Factor B' is present than 'Outcome C' is going to happen. Here we get the basis of the program.

The theory behind NLP is that these programs can easily become corrupted - much like a bad program on your computer. If these programs are corrupt, your brain will have trouble processing new information. This hinges on the fact that 'Factor A' plus 'Factor B' will not always equal 'Option C' as the program would have you believe.

Because the program in your mind is telling you that 'Option C' will happen you are going to react to 'Factor A' and 'Factor B' on an assumption. If this assumption is wrong and you react negatively anyway, this can have extreme consequences and that is exactly what NLP seeks to correct.

NLP also teaches that many individuals stand in the way of their own success because of these programs. Self-limiting thoughts are a cornerstone of the methodologies of NLP. If a person allows these programs to tell them something isn't possible - that pursing that promotion or talking to the person they're attracted to will lead to failure - the person is much less likely to attempt to achieve their goal.

The Applications

Keeping in mind what we've just discussed, the benefits offered by NLP are obvious and wide ranging. Some of the possible problems that NLP can help patients overcome include:

* Learning disabilities * Psychosomatic illnesses * Habit disorders * Depression * Anger * Phobias * Shyness * Communication problems * Poor self-esteem or self-image * Self-limiting thoughts

The Final Thought

NLP is an extremely beneficial tool, readily available for anyone choosing to pursue it. - 31985

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How To Get Others To Do What You Want With Secret Jedi Mind Tricks

By George Hutton

We humans have a lot going for us. We can walk on two legs, do interesting things with our opposing thumbs, and even peel a banana. One thing that we have that is most special is the size of our brains, compared to our body size.

Why is this? Why did our brains get so big, and not say, the Koala? Some will argue that because we are basically a nomadic species, we had to learn to adapt to different environments. But many are starting to think that our need for language is what drove our brain size.

So why then, did we develop language? Many animals migrate thousands of miles every year, and don't require any complicated speech.

If you look at language as a tool, then maybe it starts to make sense. What do we use the tool for? What is it's purpose?

For many, the automatic answer is to simply convey information. Data. Facts, figures, directions, instructions. Are we really just walking computers driven to exchange data with each other, or is there something deeper?

A growing number of evolutionary psychologists are starting to agree that the real purpose behind language is persuasion. To influence. To manipulate each other into our way of thinking.

If you remember crying when you were younger, wasn't that the most basic tool of manipulation? To try and get a parent or adult to come over and pick you up and take care of you?

When you see language from this angle, you can begin to understand that the underlying reason behind all communication is to manipulate and persuade others. Whenever you are talking to somebody, you'd like your words to cause them to think or do something that would benefit you.

So, if you are going to persuade somebody, you might as well get good at it. With all these people walking around with hidden agenda's (usually even to themselves), somebody is going to get left holding the bag.

One easy way to persuade others is to elicit and leverage the criteria of others. This means find out what is important to them, and show them covertly that they can achieve that by doing what you want.

This means actually building up a kind of relationship with them, no matter how short lived. When you approach this from a win-win situation, you can't go wrong, and the world will be in the palm of your hand. - 31985

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Patience and Hypnosis Power

By Dr. Anthony Taylor

The power of hypnosis uses the art of suggestion to influence the actions and thoughts of other people. Yet, none of this means you will obtain results quickly. If you can fully understand this, you will be on your way to becoming an advanced persuasion artist .

By influencing people on conscious levels, you may get results instantly. However, if you are stimulating the unconscious through the power of suggestion, then what you need to do is be patient so that the seeds can take root and grow.

In covert influence, this is often entitled, Seeding of Suggestion. Now, once you have successfully planted the seeds into their mind, all that is left is for you to water the seeds in order for the seeds to grow into the kind of behavior you are trying to construct. However, a very significant thing to keep in mind about the process of seeding suggestions is that you should not over water your seeds so that you end up interfering with your own suggestions.

What this means is that after you plant your suggestions, you must water them and them leave them alone so the can grow. It takes time to persuade people on unconsciously levels, because their conscious mind will need time to catch up with their unconscious mind. However, because you went through the process of planting suggestions into their mind, you will eventually obtain what you want and see the results you are looking for. All you need to do afterward is wait.

In many ways it is a hypnotic secret that there is an evil necessity of time involved between suggesting to other people what you desire and them actually giving you want you want. There are many novices in the art of persuasion who don't understand the element of time is a crucial in mastering the power of suggestion. However, if you can be patient with people, you will develop the ability to control their minds completely. - 31985

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NLP As A Model Of Psychotherapy

By Aaron Morgan

About Neuro-Linguistic Programming

Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a model of psychotherapy that believes a person can overcome a wide range of problems by adjusting the way they think about the issue. NLP believes patients have programs in their mind that dictate the way the patient reacts to certain outside factors. It comes down to one basic formula. In the patient's mind, they see 'Factor A' - for argument's sake, let's say Factor A is a snake - and a subconscious program in their mind tells them the result of 'Factor A' is 'Outcome B'. Staying with the snake example - the patient sees a snake and the program tells them they are going to get bitten. The problem therein, is that Factor A is not always going to bring Outcome B. NLP seeks to change that program so instead of responding to the snake with terror and panic, the patient will instead react with caution.

Anchoring

Anchoring is similar to classical condition in that you change the reaction to a trigger (or the anchor) by causing your mind to associate it with something else. In the case of the above mentioned snake, anchoring takes the fearful reaction to the snake and changes it to something more positive or at least something more manageable.

By anchoring the snake to another stimulus - something more positive like a comforting tone of voice or something soothing to the patient - the NLP practitioner is able to change the way the patient reacts to the trigger.

Reframing

Reframing is a communication technique that shows the patient how to see a 'frame', an idea, belief or stimulus, differently by putting it in a different context. By doing this, the NLP practitioner can help open their patient up to a wider range of possibilities. Reframing is designed to help the patient see things more clearly and better understand the opportunities available to them. A situation that may seem overwhelming and unsolvable becomes more manageable. New choices become available because the patient has a new way of looking at the situation.

Submodalities

Submodalities are a way for the NLP practitioner to see into a patient's mind and identify the things that need to be changed. This is done through targeted questions and careful observation of what the patient says and how they respond to the targeted questions.

Submodalities are the messages sent between the subconscious and conscious mind regarding remembered sights, sounds, tastes, feelings and smells. All of these things are extremely important in how people will react in certain situations. By working with the patient to identify these things, the practitioner can greatly affect the patient's ability to change.

Perceptual Positions

Perceptual positions are how individuals look at situations. Because everyone is different, everyone is going to have a different perceptual position of a situation. NLP practitioners use this as a tool to help their patients see things from different perspectives.

Perceptual positions help people recognize there are more ways to look at a problem than the way they feel they have to look at it. It opens up their mind to a greater realm of possibilities and helps them identify a better solution. Perceptual positions also help the patient step back from the problem - to get distance from it - to allow them more room to deal with it.

Representational Systems

Representational Systems allows the NLP practitioner to examine how a patient's mind is processing information. NLP teaches how to recognize how the mind processes information from all of the senses - how it sees, feels, hears, tastes and smells. This is valuable in interpreting responses. - 31985

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How Life Coaching Assist People To Achieve Their Objectives And Become Happier?

By Andy D Gallagher

Life coaching is a programme or a process, which is aimed at helping people, or group of people, in forming, and attaining their personal goals, through instructions, and training programmes. The whole purpose of this process is to develop some skills in people, which will enable them in attaining their future goals. This is a very popular profession in most of the western countries. These people are specially trained coaches, who are equipped with inducing optimism, and confidence for fulfilling your desires.

A life coach is a combination of a consultant, motivator, and a therapist. It is a common fact that whenever you are low, it is not possible for you to be optimist and see the bright side of the things. In this kind of situation, you always need someone to help you out of this bleakness, and show you that brighter side.

Now, the question is that what are the essentials of a happy life? The answer to this question is, doing everything you love, feeling alive, enjoying every moment of life, practicing all your values, having a meaningful relationship increasing graph of progress, having good health and success in every field of life, be it education or business.

So, people are considering life coaches necessary for the accomplishment of their dream for a happy and contended life. During coaching, you can learn different skills that make your journey towards happy life easier. They tell you the true meaning of life. They make you see life from a different aspect, which you have never considered before.

In the first step, coaches help you to determine your objectives. Once the objectives are clear, you are given choices how to achieve them. There are two ways through which, we can determine our success path; we select the things for ourselves, or let the life select it for us. You may not like the path which life would select for you, so it is always wise to act fast and choose the path before the life decides it for you. It can only happen if you are 100% sure about your destiny. The life coaches get you acquainted with the hidden skills you have, and once you know about your abilities, nothing is impossible for you.

After choosing your aim, the next step is to focus and then spur to action. A life coach helps you to channelize your energy. The other purpose of a life coach is to keep your vision alive. Sometimes, you may loose your focus. Here, the role of a coach is required, who teaches you how to keep pace with the life.

Other than reaching to your destination and achieving your objectives, there are lot other factors that make you happy. For instance, a life coach guides you, how to build good relationships and how to maintain them? The life coach directs you to see the positive side of the picture, and always remain optimistic. When you are optimistic, you always find good qualities in people, and this helps you build strong relationships. An optimist always looks happy, and agile, because he/she knows that what the real key to happiness is. In addition, if you are stuck in some business problem, the life coach assists you to find a solution.

Life coaching is proved to be blessing for people, as it helps them finding the true happiness, and becoming successful in life. - 31985

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Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Your Life

By John Stevenson

NLP entails the monitoring of an individual's body words, facial expressions, as well as delivery of dialogue. In addition , you need to think about the posture of the person throughout communication. This is wherever social communication occurs in to vital play.

As soon as you manage to realize the individual's body language, you start to understand just what they are attempting to truly converse. You can understand the individual much better if you're able to read between the lines. You can recognize their emotions and thinkings. It's essential to first understand that this mode associated with verbal exchanges goes beyond speech. Once you know the factors powering the conversation, you get all of the specifics.

NLP is really a means of self-improvement. It is used as remedy with regard to working with the problems like learning disorder, specific phobias, and the experiencing associated with depressive disorders. The methods used in NLP start from a form of hypnosis. In gist, NLP includes all of the techniques for the body, character, and thoughts in totality. NLP furthermore ensures that you develop a positive frame of mind in the direction of life. The learning is dependent on the perspective of an individual, how these people perceive the world and also the items happening to these people. Should you choose to find out the cup as half empty as opposed to half full, your own views will be dismal. You are going to be locked in just concentrating on the adversities inside your existence. You'll produce bigger difficulties for your self within the end simply because you might not be able to move past the present and see what you've discovered.

To be successful, it's essential to always understand the brighter aspect of items. You simply need to endeavor harder each day so that you can achieve your own aims. NLP shows you this so that you simply improve your mind set and push it in the direction of the good. You've to become mentally strong to work towards your individual accomplishment. Alter is able to take place in the event that your thoughts is entirely sure by the belief that there is simply no power better than your own strength of will. If you choose to struggle with regard to some thing in your life, you have to know you could very nicely get it done and that there's nothing holding you back.

NLP works well for bringing the confidence back inside your thoughts. Should you already have a proper outlook, you are able to enhance your abilities even even more. Hence, it is essential for you to continuously and consciously maintain advocating yourself as well as your conscious thoughts that you can usually make your life much better. You should in no way quit dreaming big. It's essential to keep sharing with yourself just how important your current desires are to you so that you simply will always thirst for triumph.

Professionals are now utilizing neuro linguistic programming in order to alter the brain's considering behaviour by rephrasing words. This is vital in enhancing effectiveness and also motivation. Through using correct terminology, you can clear your own vocabulary of defeatist words until these become a habit.

Particular terms are connected straight with individual's feelings, emotional baggage, and memories. Therapists often follow a style of neuro linguistic programming to set up connection and discover underlying meanings. And while the power of positive considering hasn't been scientifically verified, numerous patients rely on the enhancements they have welcomed in their life. - 31985

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NLP Practitioners - Understanding What They Do

By Anthony Wilson

Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) was founded in the early 1970's but is only now becoming part of the mainstream. While mainstream psychotherapy may still question the validity of the methodology behind NLP, devotees sing its praises - hailing it as a truly unique and highly effective approach to behavioral therapy.

By focusing on the idea that we create our own mental disorders and stand in the way of our own success, NLP teaches change from within. Instead of merely trying to sedate the symptoms of a problem, NLP seeks to attack the root cause and find a solution. Not satisfied with just producing temporary results, NLP practitioners hope to deliver long term results for their patients and free them from a wide variety of problems holding the patient back from reaching their full potential.

One of the most revolutionary applications of the NLP method is the treatment of phobias. By recognizing that phobias are likely the result of a negative program buried in the patient's subconscious, NLP practitioners will uncover that program and replace it with a positive one. In this case, the program likely took root in the form of a traumatic event that either happened to the patient or the patient heard about at a very young age. To correct the phobia, the NLP practitioner must change the patient's programmed response to a trigger - which, in the case of phobia would be whatever stimuli causes the fearful reaction - to something more positive. This is usually done through anchoring.

With anchoring, the NLP practitioner finds the program - the memory that causes the fearful feelings - and helps the patient anchor it to another, more pleasant stimulus. This can take a bit of work on the parts of both the practitioner and the patient, but by doing this, when the patient is introduced to the trigger - the thing of which they are afraid - the subconscious program no longer causes the patient to react with fear. Although the anchor does not usually create an overly positive reaction, as that would be another sort of inappropriate emotional reaction, the anchor usually provides the patient with a sense of calm. They may still be afraid, but it will be a manageable fear and with practice that fears will be reduced even more.

NLP also promotes a more positive self dialogue. It is perfectly natural to talk to yourself. Everyone does it. The problem is; most people use this important inner dialogue to reinforce a negative self image. It is extremely difficult to achieve a goal, or even work up the courage to pursue that goal, if you are constantly telling yourself you will fail. NLP teaches you how to foster a more healthy self-image and back that up with positive self dialogue. - 31985

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Fundamental teachings of NLP

By Ethan Brown

Neuro-Linguistic Programming is a form of psychotherapy that seeks to help patients have a better understanding of themselves and change negative thought patterns that lead to negative behaviors. Neuro-Linguistic Programming, or NLP, operates around the core principal that every person has subconscious programming in their mind that causes the person to react to certain stimulus in certain ways. By changing this programming, NLP practitioners believe they are able to turn negative reactions to positive ones. All it takes is a change in perspective.

NLP practitioners don't try to treat the symptoms of the surface of negative behaviors or mental disorders, but rather find the root cause of the problem and remedy that. NLP practitioners listen carefully to what patients say to identify any subconscious clues the patient is giving as to the true nature of the problem. NLP practitioners ask targeted questions so not to allow the patient to use deletion or omission when answering questions. By doing this, NLP practitioners are better able to explore the patient's subconscious and identify problems.

The major focus of NLP is to help people have a greater self-awareness and understand that most of the limitations they see as being part of their life are in actuality only a matter of perception. By eliminating self-defeating, self-limiting and negative thoughts, NLP can open the mind to see the bigger picture. By promoting healthy inner dialogue NLP can help you realize that the biggest problem with trying to reach a goal is telling yourself that you can't.

NLP also arms you with the tools you need to more effectively communicate. This is a great asset to anyone in a field that requires they deal with the public on a regular basis. By learning how to read people - one of the fundamental teachings of NLP - you are better able to judge whether or not the person you are speaking to is not just hearing your words, but understands the meaning behind them. NLP also teaches you how to adjust your posture, body language and tone of voice to better fit the situation you're in. By adjusting these things to match the person you're conversing with, you create a sort of connection that helps them not only understand you better but also helps make them feel you are understanding them as well.

NLP can also be used to help a wide variety of mental disorders such as habit disorders, learning disabilities, phobias and even depression. Teachers are employing the methodology behind NLP to help their students feel more confident and overcome learning disabilities.

Over NLP teaches several effective ways to prove just about every aspect of your life and help you live your life to the fullest. - 31985

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Success With NLP

By Michael Johnsons

Phobias can be a debilitating problem that can rule your entire life. For some people the phobia is of spiders, snakes, heights or things of that nature. Those phobias, while troublesome can have limited effect on the sufferer's life as a whole since the trigger of the phobia can be avoided. Other phobias can have a much more severe effect on the day to day life of the person suffering from the phobia.

Sometimes these phobias are severe enough to prevent the patient from living a normal, productive life and in extreme cases, even prevent the patient from leaving their own home. The most common example of this level of debilitating phobia agoraphobia which is a fear of leaving a safe place, often the home, or being in an open or crowded public place. This phobia, when at its most severe can make the patient completely unable to leave their own home limiting work and social potential.

Neuro-Linguistic Programming, or NLP, has the potential of helping patients overcome their phobias by exposing the root of the problem and working to correct it. The NLP practitioner will work with the patient by actively listening to their responses to targeted questions and asking further questions to get to the bottom of why people react the way they do to the stimulus in question. If the fear is of public places, as in the case of agoraphobia, the stimulus would be the outside world. This is often the toughest phobia to tackle as the root cause may be very difficult to pinpoint.

NLP centers around the idea that many of the mental disorders most commonly suffered are not in fact the result of chemical imbalances and therefore do not need to be medicated. The belief is that these disorders - phobias for the purpose of this article - are caused by subconscious signals in the brain that we have had programmed into our minds by past experiences or learned beliefs, ideals and values. These programs are so deeply engrained that we aren't even aware that they're there. NLP seeks to help reprogram our minds to help us live happier, fuller lives.

For anyone suffering from a phobia it may seem like it's just part of life that has to be dealt with. In reality that isn't true. By working with a NLP practitioner and identifying the underlying cause behind the phobia, you can change the way you react to that fear and therefore free yourself of the phobia completely. - 31985

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First Date Hypnosis

By Richard Brus

On a coffee date there is a couple of good ways to flirt. One such way is using a technique called Seductive Hypnotic Descriptions or SHD's. By talking about certain topics you can easily incorporate this technique within the context of your conversations. SDH's will cause women to subliminally experience the feelings necessary for them to feel attraction. The most important factor when building a connection with her that is based in sexual tension is how you can make her feel.

Seductive Hypnotic Descriptions work by incorporating certain words within the context of a story or description. These normal words have the possibility to be subliminally misinterpreted by the woman's subconscious mind. Normal words like 'wet' and 'hard' or 'smooth' and 'sensitive' all have connotations of sexuality attached to them. If you incorporate these words within a story you tell whilst speaking in a smooth seductive tone and rhythm, magic can happen.

Often women will reciprocate a question back to you and this is where you would use SHD's. You need to get the woman to ask you a particular question so you can use your SHD's and the easiest way to do this is to ask her the same question first.

The way to use this technique is to talk about a subject that lends itself to the possibility of you describing how you feel or think about something using a SHD. Asking a woman about the details of her very first kiss will sound strange to her if you don't lay the proper foundations for the question first. You might start by asking her where she went to school. Then you can ask her if she remembers what grade she was in when she had her very first boyfriend. From there it becomes much easier and somewhat natural to ask her a question like, "so does that mean you remember what your very first real kiss was like...?"

These kinds of questions allow her to relive the exciting romantic feelings she experienced while she is describing her first kiss to you. As she is telling you about her first kiss she will to some degree be experiencing those feelings whilst she is in your company. And the more she experiences those emotions around you, the more she'll become attracted to you. Questions like these also give you a great opportunity to use 'seductive hypnotic descriptions' to tell her about your first kiss when she reciprocates your question and asks you, "Do you remember your first kiss?"

This is when you can use a Seductive Hypnotic Description. An example might be, "...My first kiss I can definitely remember...we both ran under this big tree because it was raining and everywhere was wet...but even though I was wet, it wasn't hard to give in to the moment...I remember her how soft her lips were and how easy and natural it felt to be kissing her...even as we kissed droplets of rain fell onto our faces and wet our lips...and even though I was wet, the kiss warmed up my whole body...and that's why it's hard to forget..."

Now a lot of words in the above description can be associated with sexuality however they are not being used in that context. What gives a SHD its influence is the social innuendo that is attached to those words. When using words like these the sentences can become slightly confusing and this is what allows those suggestive words to bypass her conscious filters.

The actual tone and seductive rhythm you're using has to be very subtle and barely noticeable. The best way to achieve this is to just allow the pause in between the sentences to be just slightly longer than the usual length.

You can't overdo this method of seduction as it works best in small doses only. Your first date with a woman should be a short 40 minute coffee date. You wouldn't use any more than two SDH's in that time period. You'll definitely have to practice SHD's by yourself until you come up with a few good ones that you can use naturally. Think of the question that you want her to ask you and then ask her that same question after you've laid down the foundations to ask such a question. When she reciprocates the question you'll have you're perfectly rehearsed SHD to respond with. SHD's should only be one of the six flirting methods that you would use on a first date such as a coffee date. - 31985

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10 Unrealistic And Exceptional Phobias

By Andy D Gallagher

People have fears of many kinds like that of height, death, water, clouds, fight etc., but this fear, when becomes unreasonable and excessive, transforms in to a phobia. It depends upon your nerves as to when you lose self-control and become unable to compose yourself. This fear of a certain thing beyond sanity is called Phobia.

Phobia is an intense, irrational and constant fear of certain things, situations, activities or even people. This is a mental disorder, which, if not overcome, disturbs the personal, social and economic life of an individual; it might be rooted to a traumatic situation, which one cannot overcome.

It is logical enough to have fear for things, which are realistic, but there are certain strange phobias of everyday things that people develop. These are mostly harmless, and become unstoppable. A list of top ten strange and non-realistic phobias is as follows:

Ablutophobia

People, especially women and children, have this constant habit of bathing, washing, and cleaning, which becomes a phobia. This habit becomes continuous, because they are not sensitively established.

Chorophobia

Dancing is an expression of joy and cheerfulness; can anyone be fearful of dancing? Yes, people have this phobia too!

Koumpounophobia

Buttons are things, which we would think no one would have fear of, but some people are afraid of them, and other things such as coins, discs, which are similar to buttons.

Arachibutyrophobia

Who would be afraid of peanut butter attached to the top of their mouth? Yes, many people prefer swallowing peanut butter rather than chewing it.

Phobophobia

A psychological disorder of having a phobia for developing some phobia is also quite common. It is quite fascinating and hilarious.

Estiophobia

A very strange phobia is estiophobia; fear of clothes. The sufferers are not afraid of the all kind of clothes but of a certain type and material. Moreover, it is found in people who are fat and middle aged; they think that clothes make them look shabbier.

Caligynephobia

Can you imagine anyone being scared of the beauty? Yes, there are many people who fear beautiful women, this is called caligynephobia. This can be found in adolescent children and men who might not have straight orientation.

Scopophobia

Scopophobia is the fear of being looked at; it is a real weird one as everyone looks at someone at some point in time. Hence, it might lead to social cut-off of the sufferer.

Euphobia

Strangely, there are people who have a fear for listening to good news because not only they cannot hear it, but also they are scared that some bad news might follow it.

Allodoxaphobia

Hearing opinions from other people about their own personality, job, home, features, etc. is another phobia that people might have since they are afraid about someone passing comments about them. - 31985

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Can Life Coaching Help Me To Achieve My Dreams?

By Andy D Gallagher

A person assigned to help you with various issues in your daily life is called a life coach. To help the clients achieve whatever goals in life they have is the purpose of life coaching. Besides that, they also help in getting their clients through a difficult phase in their lives.

All kinds of people can seek the services of a life coach. One could be on a very prestigious post and one could be a total professional failure; that does not matter. What matters is your need for someone to guide you for direction and support. A life coach can give you pointers about things, like a career change or regarding difficult decisions in your life.

Furthermore, your role can also differ. For instance, it can be a mother or a housewife who needs help regarding her life pattern. Also, you can be someone who is seeking a positive, more cheerful outlook towards life, with which a life coach can help you. The problems that a life coach can solve are of every nature and kind.

Life coaching can basically be divided into two basic categories. The first category is personal life coaching, which helps you with the issues of your personal life. If you are at a certain crossroads in your life where you think you need help deciding what to do next, and what step to take, a life coach can help you decide the best option. Similarly, if you think you lack certain personality traits such as confidence, and strength, then you can hire a life coach who can help you achieve this.

There is also professional life coaching. Sometimes, there is lack of motivation and a need to switch careers. That is where a life coach can help you weigh the pros and cons of each decision. Also, a life coach can help you enhance your performance and effectiveness. Not just that, he/she can help you gain extra confidence and a drive to excel. Hence, a life coach can be a great professional helper.

To achieve your dreams, a life coach could be very helpful. Be those life purposes or goals, hiring a life coach can be very helpful in the fulfilment of that particular aim or purpose. With the help and guidance of a life coach, we can facilitate our dreams to the shade of reality, something that we seldom deemed possible.

The strain and tension of everyday life leaves very little time for one to pursue personal dreams. In the course of this fight for survival, potentials happen to get wasted. A life coach can solve this problem by organizing the schedule of his/her client in a way that helps them balance the strings of their responsibilities. This is complemented by working on the motivation factor and pumping more optimism in the outlook.

Nowadays, coaching has become a popular profession, and there are many life coaches, which you can hire for their services. You can either find one through reference, or through the internet, or hire them to help you achieve your life dreams. - 31985

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Andy D Gallagher is a training consultant. You can start a good career by taking nlp practitioner training. For more information you can visit the recommended site at http://www.inspire360.co.uk.

A Way to Prompt Hypnosis

By Christopher Cohen

To hypnotise someone and move the person into a state of subconscious relaxation is maybe more interesting and exciting an experience than getting hypnotized yourself. It needs a lot of patience and practice to be ready to prompt hypnosis and use it successfully.

It takes both the hypnotist and his subject to take part equally to be ready to achieve the specified results. In case the topic is unhappy to let go control of his consciousness, and allow himself to drift away into relaxation, it might obstruct the work of the hypnotist. Therefore , before starting to hypnotise a subject, it's necessary to clear all misconceptions patients usually carry about hypnosis, like they'll fall asleep or give out their secrets. It is imperative to build trust between the topic and the hypnotist. The topic should be sure that the sole point of hypnotising him is that his mind would receive the message better in that state and respond more positively. Once the topic is prepared, the process of hypnotism begins.

The subject should be seated in a comfortable position, uncross his arms and legs, wear loose clothes, and breathe deep. The room should preferably be quiet and dimly lit for better concentration. The hypnotist should speak in a steady, controlled, monotone voice, repeating phrases and getting the topic to sail smoothly and effortlessly together with hypnotist's voice. Instructions like, breathe deeply, let go, relax forget your fears and tensions, you are perfectly relaxed now, deeper, higher etc are quite dynamic in achieving the desired results. The hypnotist can intensify usefulness of his technique by stroking the limbs, and talking slowly, permitting sufficient time for each instruction to sink in. At no point of time should the hypnotist force himself upon the subject and annoy the thoroughly purchased subconscious state of the topic. In case, the specified results aren't achieved in the 1st attempt, a patient 2nd attempt should be made.

When the topic has been brought under hypnotism, exercise utmost care as this experience can be terrifying or unnerving for some. It's required to make the topic feel secure. Comforting phrases like do not worry, you are completely safe, everything's fine, you are in safe hands can help a hypnotist claim control without scaring the subject.

When bringing back the topic to awakened conscious, hypnotist must be equally careful. Don't jerk the topic out of his state of relaxation. Again, go slow, count form one to 5 and lead the topic out of his subconsciousness. Keep telling the topic that he is going to feel far better, fresh, energetic and revamped.

Across the process, the subject shouldn't get even the smallest inkling of any hesitancy or shortage of confidence on the part of the hypnotist. The topic must feel that the hypnotist is perfectly in control, that he won't permit any harm to come to the topic. Only then does the subject give up control and surrender himself totally to the hypnotist. Therefore to prompt hypnosis, hypnotist should have ultimate self-esteem in his capability and craft. Only then can he achieve successful induction. .

How Can Hypnosis Help You? - 31985

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